The most powerful comparison you'll ever make


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The most powerful comparison

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Hi Reader

Over the past two weeks, we've explored how comparison can either limit our growth or, when approached intentionally, become a catalyst for progress.

Today, I want to share the most powerful form of comparison you can practice: measuring against your past self.

Because this shift will transform comparison from a source of frustration into a genuine measure of your growth and impact – one that will build your confidence rather than undermine it.

Why self-comparison is the best measure

External comparison leaves us chasing moving targets. When we measure against others, we're comparing our journey to theirs without the full context. But self-comparison changes the game entirely:

It's based on complete information

You know the challenges you've faced, the resources you had available, and the inner battles you've fought. There's no missing context.

But be careful – we still need to be balanced and objective. Discussing this with someone who knows you well helps reveal blind spots or achievements you've underappreciated.

It reveals genuine progress

When you look back at where you were six months or a year ago, the growth becomes undeniable. Progress that might seem small day-to-day becomes significant when viewed over time.

It builds intrinsic motivation

External comparison often leads to chasing validation. Self-comparison connects you to your personal growth journey and internal standards.

It aligns with your unique path

Your journey is shaped by your purpose, strengths, and vision – not someone else's blueprint for success.

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How to practice meaningful self-comparison

So now we know why it's important, let's get into the 4 practical steps you can implement to make self-comparison a regular, empowering practice:

1. Track your journey deliberately

Document your progress, challenges, and insights. This doesn't need to be fancy or over-complicated – even quick notes on your phone or in a notebook will give you reference points to look back on.

One of my clients keeps a "wins document" where she records achievements and feedback (big and small). When doubt creeps in or her confidence wobbles, she can look back to concrete evidence of her progress – it's an immediate emotional boost exactly when she needs it most.

2. Give yourself credit for how far you've come

Recognise your progress. But don't mistake this for shallow self-congratulation – this is about acknowledging and appreciating your genuine growth and the effort it took.

A leader I worked with realised he now approached difficult conversations confidently when he'd previously avoided them entirely. That shift represented months of deliberate exploration, practice and courage. Recognising this change wasn't just satisfying – it gave him a real sense of pride and the motivation to tackle his next challenge.

3. Ask yourself kinder questions

Instead of "Why aren't I doing as well as them?" try:

  • How have I grown compared to my past self?
  • What have I learned along the way?
  • How am I showing up differently than I used to?
  • What am I grateful for today?
  • Where am I heading next – and why is that important?

These questions shift your focus from what you lack to how far you've come. And that's way more energising and constructive.

4. Connect progress to your purpose

The most powerful self-comparison links your growth to the impact you want to have. Ask yourself:

  • How is my growth expanding my capacity to make the difference I want to make?
  • Where am I now more aligned with my purpose than I was before?

When you can see how your personal growth directly enables greater impact, it creates a powerful motivation loop.

This is exactly why I created the Purposeful Impact Assessment. Unlike other assessments that might encourage you to compare scores, this tool helps you identify where you are, where to focus next, and track your progress over time. It's about your individual journey toward your unique impact. It's free and only takes 10 minutes. Why not see what it reveals to you?

Putting it all together

When you're clear on the impact you want to make and why that's important, external comparison will start to lose its power.

You shift from measuring yourself against others to measuring your progress against your own purposeful potential – and that's where true fulfillment emerges.

So take 5 minutes to reflect on how far you've come in the past year. What can you do now that you couldn't do then? How have you grown in ways that matter to you?

Now imagine if you make the same progress over the next 12 months (or even 6). How would that feel? The compound effect of focusing on your own growth journey rather than others' can be truly remarkable.

Let me leave you with this question to reflect on:

If you stopped unhelpful comparisons and truly owned YOUR impact vision, how far could you go?

That wraps up our comparison series. We've covered how unhelpful comparison will limit our growth and impact, how we can take an intentional, strategic approach to comparison to help our progress, and now this week, the most powerful type of comparison of all.

I hope it helps you transform comparison from a source of frustration into a powerful tool for your growth and impact.

What's your biggest takeaway from this series? And what topic would you like to see me cover soon? Hit reply and let me know. I'd love to hear from you.

Stay ambitious.

Rob

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